When Vyshnavee met her husband Thiru, it was their easy banter that hooked her in. . newsiviewlistenLoading ABC NewsNews HomeLove Story: Easy banter led to love. Friendship sustains itShareShare articleLove Story: Easy banter led to love. Friendship sustains itBy Vyshnavee WijekumarABC Lifestyle. Vyshnavee Wijekumar writes that a shared cultural heritage hasn't meant she and her husband Thiru are aligned in the ways they see the world.